101 Virtues to apply to your life, Number Seventy-six

 101 Virtues to apply to your life, Number Seventy-six

Let’s explore the book of virtues that George Washington copied at 14 and followed throughout his life. These virtues are based on Aristotle's writings but have been enhanced over the centuries. We can translate them into modern language and find practical ways to apply them.

Number Seventy-six

While you are talking, point not with your finger at him of whom you discourse nor approach too near him to whom you talk especially to his face.

This virtue advises maintaining respectful physical boundaries and avoiding aggressive gestures during conversation. In modern terms, it means being mindful of personal space and body language to ensure others feel comfortable and respected.

Practical application today

Respect personal space.

Keep a comfortable distance (about an arm's length) when talking to someone, especially in professional or casual settings, to avoid making them feel crowded.

Avoid pointing directly.

Instead of pointing at someone when referring to them, use open gestures like a palm-up hand or nod in their direction to keep the interaction friendly.

Be aware of cultural norms.

Personal space preferences vary across cultures, so adjust your proximity based on the context and the other person's comfort level.

Use non-threatening body language.

Maintain eye contact without staring, and avoid leaning in too closely, especially in heated discussions, to prevent seeming confrontational.

Virtual communication.

Avoid overly animated gestures in video calls that might feel intrusive on screen, and ensure your tone and facial expressions remain respectful.

This approach fosters trust and mutual respect in in-person or online conversations.