101 Virtues to apply to your life, Number Sixty-six

 Let’s explore the book of virtues that George Washington copied at 14 and followed throughout his life. These virtues are based on Aristotle's writings but have been enhanced over the centuries. We can translate them into modern language and find practical ways to apply them.

Number Sixty-six

Be not forward but friendly and courteous; the first to salute, hear, and answer & be not pensive when it's time to converse.

This virtue is about being approachable, polite, and engaging in social interactions. In modern terms, it means don’t come on too strong or act overly eager; instead, be warm, respectful, and ready to connect. It’s about taking the initiative to greet others, listen attentively, and respond thoughtfully—without overthinking or getting lost in your head when it’s time to chat.

You can apply this today by smiling and saying hi to a coworker or neighbor first rather than waiting for them to make the move. When someone’s talking, whether it’s a friend venting or a cashier making small talk, give them your full attention, not just a distracted nod, while you scroll your phone. And when it’s your turn to speak, keep it light and genuine instead of clamming up or overanalyzing what you’ll say next. It’s about being present and making people feel comfortable around you without forcing it.