101 Virtues to apply to your life, Number Eighty-two

 101 Virtues to apply to your life, Number Eighty-two

 

Let’s explore the book of virtues that George Washington copied at 14 and followed throughout his life. These virtues are based on Aristotle's writings but have been enhanced over the centuries. We can translate them into modern language and find practical ways to apply them.

 

Number Eighty-two

When you deliver a matter, do it without passion and with discretion. However mean the person may be, you do it, too.

 

The quote emphasizes delivering criticism or addressing issues calmly, tactfully, and impartially, regardless of the person's character. In modern terms, this virtue is about professionalism and emotional intelligence, handling difficult conversations with composure and fairness.

 

Practical application today

Workplace Feedback

When giving constructive criticism to a colleague, focus on the issue, not the person. Use neutral language, e.g., "The report could benefit from more data" instead of "You didn’t do enough research."

 

Conflict Resolution

 Stay calm and objective during disputes, even if the other person is hostile. Listen actively and respond thoughtfully to de-escalate.

 

Social Media Interactions

Respond to negativity or trolling with restraint, avoiding emotional outbursts. A measured reply or choosing to disengage reflects this virtue.

 

Customer Service

 Deal with rude clients patiently, addressing their concerns politely without taking it personally.

 

This approach fosters respect, maintains professionalism, and prevents escalation, regardless of the other person's behavior.