101 Virtues to apply to your life, Number Seventy-five
Let’s explore the book of virtues that George Washington copied at 14 and followed throughout his life. These virtues are based on Aristotle's writings but have been enhanced over the centuries. We can translate them into modern language and find practical ways to apply them.
Number Seventy-five
In the midst of discourse, ask not of what one treateth, but if you perceive any stop because of your coming, you may well intreat him gently to proceed. If a person of quality comes in while you're conversing, it's handsome to repeat what was said before
This virtue emphasizes courtesy and attentiveness in conversation. In modern terms, it advises respecting the flow of discussion and ensuring inclusivity when new people join.
The virtue is about being polite and considerate in social interactions. It suggests avoiding interruptions, gently encouraging others to continue if they pause, and thoughtfully summarizing prior points for newcomers, especially those of significance, to keep everyone engaged.
Practical Application
Active Listening
In a group chat or meeting, don’t derail the conversation with unrelated questions. If someone hesitates when you join, kindly say, “Please, go on, I’d love to hear more.”
Inclusivity
When someone new enters a discussion (e.g., a colleague joining a meeting or a friend arriving at a gathering), briefly recap key points: “We were just talking about the project timeline, any thoughts?”
Respecting Hierarchy or Context
In professional settings, if a senior team member joins, acknowledge their presence subtly by summarizing the discussion to bring them up to speed without disrupting the flow.
Digital Etiquette
Avoid abrupt topic shifts in online forums or video calls. To include latecomers, use phrases like, “To catch you up, we’re discussing…”
This approach fosters respect, ensures smooth communication, and makes conversations welcoming and collaborative in today’s fast-paced, often digital interactions.
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