101 Virtues to apply to your life, Number Seventy-seven

 101 Virtues to apply to your life, Number Seventy-seven

 

Let’s explore the book of virtues that George Washington copied at 14 and followed throughout his life. These virtues are based on Aristotle's writings but have been enhanced over the centuries. We can translate them into modern language and find practical ways to apply them.

 

Number Seventy-seven

Mock not nor jest at anything of importance, break no jests that are sharp biting, and if you deliver anything witty and Pleasant, abstain from laughing thereat yourself.

 

This virtue, drawn from older etiquette, advises against mocking serious matters, using hurtful humor, or laughing at your own jokes. In modern terms, it promotes respectful, considerate communication with a touch of humility.

 

Meaning in Modern Language

Don’t mock what matters:

 Avoid highlighting things significant to others, like their beliefs, struggles, or values.

 

Avoid cruel humor

Steer clear of sharp, biting jokes that could offend or harm.

 

Stay humble

If you say something clever, let it stand on its own without seeking attention by laughing at your own wit.

 

Practical Application Today

 

In Conversations

Be mindful of sensitive topics. For example, avoid joking about someone’s personal challenges or cultural background, especially in diverse settings like workplaces or social media.

 

On Social Media

Refrain from posting or sharing memes that punch down or trivialize serious issues, such as mental health or social justice.

 

In Humor 

Share light, inclusive jokes that uplift rather than offend. If you’re naturally witty, let others appreciate it without drawing attention to yourself.

 

Self-Awareness

Practice restraint. If you’re tempted to laugh at your own joke during a presentation or casual chat, pause and let the moment pass naturally.

 

This approach fosters empathy, builds trust, and ensures your humor connects rather than alienates.