Let’s explore the book of virtues that George Washington copied at 14 and followed throughout his life. These virtues are based on Aristotle's writings but have been enhanced over the centuries. We can translate them into modern language and find practical ways to apply them.
Number Seventy
Reprehend not the imperfections of others, for that belongs to parents, masters, and superiors.
In modern terms, this virtue is about practicing humility and restraint by not rushing to criticize others' flaws, especially when it's not your place. It suggests leaving correction to those with direct responsibility, like parents, teachers, or bosses, while focusing on your growth.
Practical application
At work
Instead of pointing out a colleague’s mistake in a group chat, consider if it’s your role to address it. If it’s not, share feedback privately with their manager or focus on supporting the team constructively.
In relationships
Avoid nitpicking a friend’s habits (e.g., how they organize their kitchen). Let it go unless it directly affects you or offer gentle suggestions only if asked.
Online
On social media platforms, resist piling on someone’s typo or lousy take. Engage thoughtfully or scroll past, recognizing you’re not their mentor.
Self-reflection
When you feel the urge to judge, ask, “Is this my responsibility?” Redirect that energy to improving your habits or skills.
This approach fosters respect, reduces conflict, and keeps you focused on how you can control your actions and growth. Want tips for a specific scenario?
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