101 Virtues to apply to your life, Number Sixty-five

 Let’s explore the book of virtues that George Washington copied at 14 and followed throughout his life. These virtues are based on Aristotle's writings but have been enhanced over the centuries. We can translate them into modern language and find practical ways to apply them.

 

Number Sixty-five

Speak not injurious words neither in jest nor earnest scoff at none although they give occasion.

In modern terms, this virtue means: "Don’t say hurtful things, whether you’re joking or serious, and don’t mock people even if they give you a reason to." It’s about practicing kindness and restraint in speaking to others, regardless of the situation.

In a practical, contemporary sense, you could apply this by avoiding snarky comments or pile-on sarcasm, primarily online, where it’s easy to escalate. For example, if someone posts something you disagree with on social media, instead of dunking on them with a clever jab, you could either scroll past or respond with something neutral that doesn’t attack them personally. It’s about keeping your words from crossing into harm, even when you’re tempted, say, during a heated group chat or when a coworker messes up at work. The idea is to stay respectful and not let irritation turn into verbal ammo, which fits today’s push for less toxicity in communication.