101 Virtues to apply to your life, Number Seventy-nine

Let’s explore the book of virtues that George Washington copied at 14 and followed throughout his life. These virtues are based on Aristotle's writings but have been enhanced over the centuries. We can translate them into modern language and find practical ways to apply them.

 

Number Seventy-nine

Use no reproachful language against any one neither curse nor revile.

 

This virtue emphasizes speaking respectfully and kindly, avoiding harsh criticism, insults, or abusive language. In modern terms, it’s about practicing civility and empathy in communication, even when you disagree or feel upset.

 

Practical Applications

Online Interactions

Respond thoughtfully instead of lashing out on social media or forums. If someone posts a controversial opinion, engage with questions or constructive feedback rather than name-calling or sarcasm.

 

Workplace Communication

 When giving feedback, focus on the issue, not the person. Instead of saying, “You’re always late,” try, “I’ve noticed some delays, can we find a solution?”

 

Personal Relationships

 Use “I” statements like, “I feel hurt when…” instead of blaming or cursing during arguments. This keeps the conversation productive.

 

Self-Control in Stress

If you’re tempted to snap at someone (e.g., in traffic or a long queue), take a breath and choose neutral or positive words to de-escalate.

 

You foster understanding and maintain dignity in any setting by prioritizing respect and restraint.