101 Virtues to apply to your life, Number Eighty-three

Let’s explore the book of virtues that George Washington copied at 14 and followed throughout his life. These virtues are based on Aristotle's writings but have been enhanced over the centuries. We can translate them into modern language and find practical ways to apply them.

 

Number Eighty-three

Be not curious to know the affairs of others, nor approach those who speak in private.

This virtue emphasizes respecting others' privacy and avoiding unnecessary curiosity about their matters. In modern terms, it means not prying into private conversations, gossip, or sensitive information that doesn't concern you.

 

Practical applications today

Digital Boundaries

Avoid snooping on private messages, emails, or social media accounts without permission.

 

Steer Clear of Gossip

Refrain from engaging in or spreading rumors about colleagues, friends, or acquaintances.

 

Mind Your Curiosity

If you overhear a private conversation or see a sensitive document, don’t probe further unless invited.

 

Set an Example

Show discretion in your affairs, encouraging others to respect privacy by modeling it yourself.

 

Use Tech Wisely

Don’t share or seek out leaked private information online, like hacked emails or personal data.

 

This fosters trust, maintains healthy relationships, and aligns with ethical behavior in a hyper-connected world.