101 Virtues to apply to your life, Number Sixty-nine

 101 Virtues to apply to your life, Number Sixty-nine

 

Number Sixty-nine

If two contend together, take not the part of either unconstrained; be not obstinate in your own opinion, in things indifferent be of the major side.

This virtue advises maintaining impartiality and flexibility in disputes or decisions. In modern terms, it means avoiding bias when others disagree, not clinging stubbornly to your views, and, in matters of little consequence, aligning with the majority for harmony.

 

Practical Application Today:

Stay Neutral in Conflicts

When friends or colleagues argue, listen to both sides without rushing to judge. For example, if coworkers disagree on a project approach, facilitate discussion rather than immediately siding with one.

Be Open-Minded:

 If debating a minor issue, like choosing a team lunch spot, don’t insist on your preference. Consider others’ input and be willing to compromise.

Go with the Flow on Trivial Matters: 

In low-stakes situations, like picking a movie for a group, support the majority’s choice to keep things smooth unless it’s a matter of principle.

 

This approach fosters fairness, reduces conflict, and promotes collaboration in everyday interactions.