101 Virtues to apply to your life, Number Eighty-one

 101 Virtues to apply to your life, Number Eighty-one

 

Let’s explore the book of virtues that George Washington copied at 14 and followed throughout his life. These virtues are based on Aristotle's writings but have been enhanced over the centuries. We can translate them into modern language and find practical ways to apply them.

 

Number Eighty-one

Be not Tedious in Discourse or in reading unless you find the Company pleased therewith.

 

In modern terms, this virtue means: Don't bore people with long-winded talk or excessive reading unless they're clearly into it. It emphasizes being concise, engaging, and aware of your audience's interest.

 

Practical application today

In conversations

 Keep your points brief and relevant. Pay attention to body language or verbal cues; if someone seems distracted or disengaged, wrap it up or shift topics.

 

In meetings or presentations

 Stick to key points, avoid overloading with details, and use visuals or interactivity to maintain attention. Ask for feedback to gauge interest.

 

On social media or writing

 Share content that's to the point and tailored to your audience. Long posts or emails? Summarize upfront or break them into digestible parts.

 

When reading aloud or sharing content 

Check if your audience is still with you. If they're not, pause or switch to discussion.

 

Being mindful of others' engagement keeps communication effective and respectful.