Let’s explore the book of virtues that George Washington copied at 14 and followed throughout his life. These virtues are based on Aristotle's writings but have been enhanced over the centuries. We can translate them into modern language and find practical ways to apply them.
Number Twenty-Nine
When you meet with one of Greater Quality than yourself, Stop and retire, especially if it be at a Door or any Straight place to give way for him to Pass.
In modern terms, this virtue is about showing respect and courtesy to someone who holds a higher position, whether due to their experience, authority, or some other quality that sets them apart. It’s less about rigid hierarchy today and more about recognizing when to step back and give someone else the spotlight or the right of way, especially when space or timing makes it awkward for both to proceed simultaneously.
Practically, you can apply this in everyday life by:
At Work:
If you’re in a meeting and a senior colleague or boss enters, pause your conversation and let them settle in or take the lead. If you’re both heading for the door, hold it open and let them go first—a small gesture showing awareness and respect.
In Public:
Imagine you’re on a crowded train or in a narrow hallway. If someone older, more experienced, or even in a rush (like a harried parent with kids) is coming through, step aside instead of jostling for position. It’s about reading the room and prioritizing ease for others.
Socially:
When you’re with friends, and someone with more expertise on a topic starts speaking, don’t interrupt; give them the floor. Or if you’re at a party and the host is trying to get through a tight space with drinks, don’t block their path.
The core idea is humility and situational awareness. It’s not about groveling or thinking less of yourself—it’s about smoothing social interactions and showing you value others’ presence or needs. It’s less formal but still a quiet way to build goodwill in today's world.
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