Let’s explore the book of virtues that George Washington copied at 14 and followed throughout his life. These virtues are based on Aristotle's writings but have been enhanced over the centuries. We can translate them into modern language and find practical ways to apply them.
Number Thirty-Seven
In speaking to men of quality, do not lean, look them full in the face, or approach them too near them. At least keep a full pace
In modern terms, it advises respect and restraint when interacting with people of high status or quality; don’t get too chummy, intrusive, or familiar. The "don’t lean" part suggests maintaining physical and emotional distance and avoiding over-familiarity. "Don’t look them full in the face" implies not being overly bold or confrontational, and "Keep a full pace" reinforces keeping a respectful buffer, literally and figuratively.
Today, this could translate to respecting boundaries in professional or social settings. For example:
In a workplace
Don't crowd their personal space when talking to a boss or senior. Keep a comfortable distance, avoid overly direct or prolonged eye contact that might feel aggressive, and don’t overshare personal details unless invited. It’s about projecting confidence without seeming pushy or disrespectful.
In social situations
If you’re meeting someone influential, like a mentor, a celebrity, or just someone you admire, don’t hover too close or stare them down. Give them room to feel at ease, and let your demeanor show deference without fawning.
Practically, it’s about reading the room: stand tall but not in their face, make eye contact to connect but not to challenge, and keep your approach measured. It’s less about bowing and scraping and more about signaling that you respect their position while holding your own. This old-school restraint can still stand out as classy and self-aware in a world of casual over-sharing and selfie-stick closeness.
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