101 Virtues to apply to your life, Number Twenty Eight

Let’s explore the book of virtues that George Washington copied at 14 and followed throughout his life. These virtues are based on Aristotle's writings but have been enhanced over the centuries. We can translate them into modern language and find practical ways to apply them.

Number Twenty-Eight

If anyone comes to Speak to you while you are Sitting, Stand up though he is your Inferior, and when you Present Seats, let it be to every one according to his Degree.

This virtue is about showing respect and courtesy to others, regardless of their status, and being mindful of social hierarchy when offering hospitality. In modern terms, it suggests treating everyone with dignity and consideration, even if they’re not “above” you, and being thoughtful about how you accommodate people based on their role or position.

Practically, this could play out today like this: If you’re chilling on a couch and someone, say a coworker, a friend, or even a delivery person, comes up to talk to you, get up to greet them instead of staying seated like they’re interrupting you. It’s a small gesture that says, “I value you being here.” And when you’re hosting or organizing something, like offering seats at a meeting or a dinner, think about who’s who. Give the guest of honor, your boss, or your grandma the better spot, not just because of some rigid rule, but because it shows you’re paying attention to what makes them comfortable or respected. It’s less about bowing to power and more about making people feel seen, whether you’re at a barbecue or a Zoom call.