Let’s explore the book of virtues that George Washington copied at 14 and followed throughout his life. These virtues are based on Aristotle's writings but have been enhanced over the centuries. We can translate them into modern language and find practical ways to apply them.
Number Fifty
Be not hasty to believe flying Reports to the Disparagement of any.
This virtue advises against quickly accepting rumors or negative reports that damage someone's reputation. In modern terms, it means: "Don't be quick to believe or spread gossip that puts someone down."
In a practical, contemporary sense, this can be applied in everyday life by:
Pausing Before Judging
When you hear something negative about someone, whether it's from a friend, a news headline, or a social media post, please take a moment to question its truthfulness instead of immediately assuming it's accurate.
Checking Sources
In today’s world of viral misinformation, look into where the information is coming from. Is it reliable? Is there evidence, or is it just hearsay?
Avoiding the Share Button
On social media platforms or other media, resist the urge to repost or amplify unverified claims that trash someone’s character. Once it’s out there, it’s hard to take back.
Giving the Benefit of the Doubt
Assume people aren’t as bad as the rumor suggests until you’ve got solid reason to think otherwise. This could mean talking to the person directly, if it’s someone you know, or just staying skeptical of the narrative.
For example, if a coworker tells you another colleague is slacking off, don’t just buy into it and start treating them differently. Dig a little; maybe they’re dealing with something tough outside work. Or if a social media post claims a public figure did something awful, don’t retweet it until you see if it holds up beyond the outrage bait.
It’s about keeping a level head and not letting juicy gossip dictate your thoughts or words about people.
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