101 Virtues to apply to your life, Forty-nine

Let’s explore the book of virtues that George Washington copied at 14 and followed throughout his life. These virtues are based on Aristotle's writings but have been enhanced over the centuries. We can translate them into modern language and find practical ways to apply them.

Number Forty-nine

Use no Reproachful Language against any one neither Curse nor Revile. This virtue encourages us to choose our words kindly and respectfully, avoiding harshness or negativity towards others. In today’s world, it’s all about maintaining a relaxed and respectful atmosphere, even when someone is testing your patience. Here’s how you can roll with it in real life: On social media  Skip the “Wow, you’re clueless” clapback. Maybe toss out an “Eh, I see it another way, check this out,” or keep scrolling. At work  If someone’s idea flops in your head, don’t go, “That’s trash.” Try a laid-back, “Not feeling it, how about this instead?” With your crew or family,  Don’t sling insults or old baggage when stuff heats up. Take a breath, and stick to what’s up right now. It’s not about being perfect; it’s about keeping it cool and not turning into the one everyone screenshots later.