Let’s explore the book of virtues that George Washington copied at 14 and followed throughout his life. These virtues are based on Aristotle's writings but have been enhanced over the centuries. We can translate them into modern language and find practical ways to apply them.
Number Thirty-eight
In visiting the sick, do not presently play the physician if you be not knowing therein.
Originally from older English, this virtue can be translated into modern language as: "When visiting someone who is sick, don’t immediately try to act like a doctor if you don’t have medical expertise."
Meaning in Modern Terms
It advises against offering uninformed medical advice or pretending to have knowledge you lack when supporting someone ill. The core idea is humility and respect, recognizing your limits, and avoiding actions that could mislead or harm someone in a vulnerable state. Instead, it encourages being present with care and compassion, leaving technical expertise to those qualified.
Practical, Contemporary Application
Listen Rather Than Diagnose
If a friend is sick and venting about their symptoms, don’t say, “Oh, you should take this medicine” or “It sounds like you have X condition” unless you’re a trained professional. Instead, say, “That sounds rough. Have you talked to a doctor about it?”
Offer Support, Not Solutions
Bring practical help, like dropping off groceries, offering a ride to a clinic, or just keeping them company, rather than playing armchair physician with Google-searched remedies.
Defer to Doctors
If someone asks for advice you’re not qualified to give, gently redirect them. For example: “I’m not sure about that, but I’d be happy to help you look up what a doctor might recommend.”
Avoid Spreading Misinformation
In an age of online health trends and dubious social media posts about cures, resist the urge to share unverified tips. If you’re tempted to pass along something you saw, check credible sources first or encourage the person to consult a healthcare provider.
This virtue is about staying in your lane with kindness, especially when well-meaning ignorance could do more harm than good.
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