Let’s explore the book of virtues that George Washington copied at 14 and followed throughout his life. These virtues are based on Aristotle's writings but have been enhanced over the centuries. We can translate them into modern language and find practical ways to apply them.
Number Thirty-six
Artificers & Persons of low Degree ought not to use many ceremonies to Lords or Others of high Degree but Respect and highly Honor them, and those of high Degree ought to treat them with affability & Courtesy, without Arrogance.
This passage is essentially about humility, respect, and kindness in social interactions, regardless of someone's status or position. In modern terms, it’s saying that people from all walks of life, whether they’re ordinary folks or those in lower social standings, shouldn’t overdo formalities or grovel when dealing with people of higher status. Instead, they should show genuine respect and honor without putting on a big show. On the flip side, those in higher positions should treat everyone with friendliness and courtesy, not looking down on them or acting superior.
What It Means Today
This virtue is about leveling the playing field in human interactions. It’s a call to ditch pretension and arrogance and focus instead on mutual respect. In a world where social hierarchies still exist, think bosses vs. employees, influencers vs. followers, or even everyday encounters. It’s about recognizing everyone’s inherent worth. It’s anti-snobbery and anti-bootlicking at the same time.
Practical Application in 2025
In the Workplace
If you’re an entry-level worker, don’t bow and scrape to impress your CEO; just do your job well and show respect through your actions, not over-the-top flattery. If you’re the CEO, don’t bark orders or act untouchable. Chat with your team casually, ask about their day, and value their input without condescending.
On Social Media
Don’t fawn over “big accounts” with endless praise just because they’re popular; engage authentically if you’ve got something to say. If you have followers, respond to comments or DMs with kindness, not a “too busy for you” attitude.
Everyday Life
At a coffee shop, the barista doesn’t need to act overly deferential to a well-dressed customer; just a polite “Here’s your coffee” works. And if you’re that customer, don’t snap your fingers or act entitled, say “thanks” and mean it.
With Friends or Family
Don’t put on airs if you’ve got a fancy degree or a better job than someone else; keep it honest and approachable. Likewise, don’t feel small if you’re still figuring things out; respect yourself and others without overcomplicating it.
It’s all about cutting through the noise of status and treating people like people, simple, direct, and decent.
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