101 Virtues to apply to your life, Number Thirty

 Let’s explore the book of virtues that George Washington copied at 14 and followed throughout his life. These virtues are based on Aristotle's writings but have been enhanced over the centuries. We can translate them into modern language and find practical ways to apply them.

Number Thirty

In walking, the highest Place in most Countries Seems to be on the right hand; therefore, Place yourself on the left of him whom you desire to Honor, but if three walk together, the middest Place is the most Honorable. The wall is usually given to the most worthy if two walk together.

This passage describes an old etiquette rule about positioning yourself when walking with others based on showing respect or honor. In modern language, it’s saying: when you’re walking with someone you want to show respect to, let them take the "better" position—typically the right side or the middle if there are three people. Historically, the right side of the spot closest to the wall (away from the street) was seen as safer or more prestigious, so giving that up was a sign of humility and regard for the other person.

Today, this virtue is about showing consideration and prioritizing others’ comfort or status over your own. It’s less about rigid rules like "right side" or "wall side" and more about the spirit of respect and selflessness. Here’s how you could apply it practically in a contemporary way.

Walking with Others

If you’re with someone you want to honor, like an elder, a mentor, or a guest, let them take the more comfortable or safer spot. For example, offer them the inside of the sidewalk away from traffic or let them lead the way in a group.

Everyday Situations

Extend this idea beyond walking. At a meeting, give someone you respect the better seat (maybe the one with a view or closer to the front). In a car, offer the front passenger seat instead of claiming it yourself.

Social Dynamics

It’s about subtle gestures that show you’re not always putting yourself first. Holding a door open, stepping aside to let someone pass, or even giving up your place in line for someone in a rush can reflect this mindset.

The core idea is humility and respect: putting others’ needs or dignity ahead of your own in small, tangible ways. It’s less about strict rules now and more about the attitude behind the action.