101 Virtues to apply to your life, Number Fifty-seven

 Let’s explore the book of virtues that George Washington copied at 14 and followed throughout his life. These virtues are based on Aristotle's writings but have been enhanced over the centuries. We can translate them into modern language and find practical ways to apply them. 

Number Fifty-seven

In walking up and down in a house, only with one in company if he be greater than yourself, at the first give him the right hand and stop not till he does and be not the first that turns, and when you do turn let it be with your face towards him, if he be a man of great quality, walk not with him cheek by joul but somewhat behind him; but yet in such a manner that he may easily speak to you.

This virtue is rooted in respect, deference, and social awareness. In modern terms, it advises showing consideration for someone of higher status or authority by giving them precedence and maintaining a respectful demeanor. It’s about recognizing hierarchy or social dynamics while remaining available and approachable.

Today, this could translate to everyday scenarios like walking with a boss, mentor, or elder. Practically, it might mean letting them take the lead in a conversation or decision-making, offering them the better seat, or subtly adjusting your pace to stay attentive without overstepping; think of it as not crowding their space, physically or figuratively. For example, in a workplace, you might walk slightly behind a senior colleague while heading to a meeting, staying close enough to chat if they initiate but not forcing yourself into their spotlight. It’s less about rigid etiquette and more about signaling respect through small, thoughtful actions.