101 Virtues to apply to your life, Number Forty-six

 Let’s explore the book of virtues that George Washington copied at 14 and followed throughout his life. These virtues are based on Aristotle's writings but have been enhanced over the centuries. We can translate them into modern language and find practical ways to apply them.

Number Forty-six

Take all admonitions thankfully in what time or place so ever given but afterwards not being culpable take a time & place convenient to let him him know it that gave them.

The virtue related to receiving advice or criticism gracefully. In modern language, this virtue could be described as: Accept criticism or guidance with gratitude at the moment, regardless of when or where it’s given, and later, when you’re not at fault, find a suitable time and place to calmly address or clarify the matter with the person who offered it.

Meaning in Modern Terms

This virtue emphasizes humility, emotional maturity, and thoughtful communication. It’s about being open to feedback without reacting defensively in the moment while reserving the right to respond or correct misunderstandings later when the timing and setting are appropriate. It balances receptiveness with self-respect.

Practical Application Today

In the Workplace

Imagine your boss critiques your project during a meeting. Instead of arguing back immediately, thank them for the input and take time to process it. Later, if you believe some points were unfair or unclear, schedule a private conversation to discuss them calmly and professionally, presenting your perspective with facts.

In Personal Relationships

If a friend gives you unsolicited advice about your habits, listen and acknowledge their concern without snapping back. Afterward, if you feel it was unwarranted, find a relaxed moment, like over coffee, to explain your side and set boundaries, keeping the tone respectful.

On Social Media

If someone comments critically on your post, resist the urge to fire back instantly. Appreciate their engagement (even internally), then decide if it’s worth a measured reply later, perhaps after checking their profile or the context of their stance, to keep the exchange constructive.

This approach fosters patience, reduces conflict, and builds stronger connections by showing you’re both teachable and confident enough to stand up for yourself when warranted, all at the right time.

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