Let’s explore the book of virtues that George Washington copied at 14 and followed throughout his life. These virtues are based on Aristotle's writings but have been enhanced over the centuries. We can translate them into modern language and find practical ways to apply them.
Number Forty-seven
Mock not nor jest at any thing of importance break no jest that are sharp biting and if you deliver any thing witty and pleasant abstain from laughing thereat yourself.
This virtue, originally written in an older style of English, advises against mocking or joking about serious matters and warns against using harsh or hurtful humor. It also suggests that if you say something clever or enjoyable, you should let others appreciate it without drawing attention to yourself by laughing at your wit.
In modern terms, this means: Don’t make fun of things that matter deeply to people and avoid humor that stings or cuts others down. If you share something smart or funny, let it stand on its own, don’t laugh at your own joke to fish for reactions.
Practically applying this today could look like this:
Online interactions
On social media, refrain from sarcastic comments about sensitive topics like someone’s beliefs or struggles, and skip the edgy memes that might hit too hard. If you post something clever, let your friends’ likes or comments speak for it instead of hyping yourself up.
Conversations
At work or with friends, steer clear of teasing about things like someone’s job stress or personal goals. If you land a good one-liner, keep a straight face and let the group enjoy it naturally.
Self-awareness
Before joking, ask yourself if it’s kind and respects the moment. For example, don’t crack a quip about layoffs during a serious team meeting.
It’s about tact, empathy, and letting humor lift people up without showing off or stepping on toes.
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