101 Virtues to apply to your life, Number Twenty Six

 

Let’s explore the book of virtues that George Washington copied at 14 and followed throughout his life. These virtues are based on Aristotle's writings but have been enhanced over the centuries. We can translate them into modern language and find practical ways to apply them.

Number Twenty-Six

In Pulling off your Hat to Persons of Distinction, Noblemen, Justices, and Churchmen &c make a Reverence, bowing more or less according to the Custom of the Better Bred and Quality of the Person. Amongst your equals, expect not always that they Should begin with you first, but to Pull off the Hat when there is no need is Affectation, in the Manner of Saluting and resaluting in words, keep to the most usual Custom.

This virtue is about showing respect and good manners when greeting or acknowledging people, particularly those of higher social standing, while avoiding over-the-top or insincere gestures. In modern terms, it’s about balancing politeness with authenticity in social interactions.

Here’s what it means today: When you encounter someone, say, a boss, a teacher, or an elder, offer a respectful gesture, like a nod, a handshake, or a friendly “hello,” depending on what feels natural and fits the situation. The idea is to adjust your level of formality based on who you’re dealing with and what’s culturally expected. With friends or peers, don’t fuss over who says hi first, just be chill and genuine. But going overboard, like bowing dramatically or piling on compliments when it’s not needed, comes off as fake or try-hard.

Practically, you could apply this by greeting your boss with a “Good morning, Mr. Smith” and a smile, while with a coworker it’s just a casual “Hey, how’s it going?” It’s about reading the room, respecting people without overacting, and keeping things smooth and real in everyday life.