Let’s explore the book of virtues that George Washington copied at 14 and followed throughout his life. These virtues are based on Aristotle's writings but have been enhanced over the centuries. We can translate them into modern language and find practical ways to apply them.
#8
At Play and at Fire it is Good manners to Give Place to the last Commer, and affect not to Speak Louder than Ordinary.
This virtue advises people to be considerate in social settings, whether in play (games, leisure) or around fire (gatherings, discussions). In modern terms, it means:
Respect latecomers
When someone new joins a game, conversation, or social event, make room for them and allow them to participate instead of dominating the space.
Don’t be overly loud or attention-seeking
Speaking louder than necessary can be disruptive and inconsiderate. Engaging in a way that respects the natural flow of conversation is better.
Practical Applications Today:
In Social Gatherings
When someone arrives late to a discussion, avoid excluding them. Instead, briefly catch them up and give them space to contribute.In Meetings or Group Projects
If a new person joins midway, welcome them rather than shutting them out or making them feel like outsiders.
Online Discussions & Gaming
If you're in a multiplayer game or group chat and someone new joins, be courteous and let them integrate smoothly rather than overpowering the conversation or activity.
Public Spaces (Gyms, Public Transport, etc.)
If others wait, take turns and don’t monopolize resources or attention.
Essentially, this rule encourages humility, inclusivity, and respect for others in communal settings.
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