101 Virtues to apply to your life, Twenty-five

 Let’s explore the book of virtues that George Washington copied at 14 and followed throughout his life. These virtues are based on Aristotle's writings but have been enhanced over the centuries. We can translate them into modern language and find practical ways to apply them.

Number Twenty-five

Superfluous Complements and all Affectation of Ceremony are to be avoided, yet where due, they are not to be Neglected. In simple modern terms, this virtue balances how we interact with others. It means avoiding unnecessary flattery or over-the-top politeness that feels fake while still showing respect and courtesy when it’s appropriate. Practically speaking, imagine you’re at work or with friends. You don’t need to heap praise like “You’re the most amazing person ever!” Whenever someone does something small, that can come off as insincere. Instead, keep it accurate: a straightforward “Nice job” or “Thanks for that” works when earned. But if the situation calls for it, like thanking a mentor who’s truly impacted you or acknowledging someone’s significant achievement—don’t hold back from giving credit where it’s due. In today’s world, this could apply to everyday interactions like texting or social media. Don’t overdo it with emojis and exclamation points just to seem friendly, but don’t be so casual that you ignore basic manners. It’s about being authentic and considerate, depending on the situation.