101 Virtues to apply to your life, Number Ninety-four

 101 Virtues to apply to your life, Number Ninety-four

 

Let’s explore the book of virtues that George Washington copied at 14 and followed throughout his life. These virtues are based on Aristotle's writings but have been enhanced over the centuries. We can translate them into modern language and find practical ways to apply them.

 

Number Ninety-four

Entertaining any one at the table, it is decent to present him with meat; undertake not to help others undesired by the master.

 

This virtue emphasizes respectful and considerate behavior when serving or assisting others, particularly in a social or dining context. In modern language, it means being attentive and courteous when offering help or resources, ensuring your actions align with the host's or group's preferences, and not overstepping boundaries.

 

Practical Application Today

 

Respect the Host's Role

 If you're at a dinner party or gathering, let the host serve food or drinks unless they ask for help. For example, don’t start plating food for others or pouring wine without the host’s approval.

 

Offer Help Thoughtfully

 When you see someone might need assistance (e.g., passing a dish or grabbing a napkin), offer politely rather than acting without permission. A simple, “Would you like me to get that for you?” shows respect for their autonomy.

 

Read Social Cues

 Don't assume someone wants your input or assistance in professional or casual settings, like a meeting or group activity. Ask or wait for an invitation to contribute, ensuring you’re not imposing.

 

Be Mindful of Context

 At a potluck or family-style meal, serve others in a way that feels inclusive and generous but doesn’t override the host’s plans or make others uncomfortable.

 

This approach fosters harmony, respects boundaries, and ensures your actions enhance the group’s experience without drawing attention to yourself.