101 Virtues to apply to your life, Number Ninety-one

 101 Virtues to apply to your life, Number Ninety-one

 

Let’s explore the book of virtues that George Washington copied at 14 and followed throughout his life. These virtues are based on Aristotle's writings but have been enhanced over the centuries. We can translate them into modern language and find practical ways to apply them.

 

Number Ninety-one

Being set at meat, scratch, neither spit, cough, nor blow your nose, except there's a necessity for it.

 

This virtue advises maintaining proper table manners by avoiding crude behaviors like scratching, spitting, coughing, or blowing your nose unless necessary. In modern terms, it emphasizes dining with respect and consideration for others, ensuring a pleasant and hygienic experience.

 

Practical Application Today

Practice Discreet Hygiene

 If you need to cough, sneeze, or blow your nose, turn away from the table, use a tissue, and sanitize your hands. Excuse yourself to the restroom for anything more disruptive.

 

Avoid Unhygienic Actions

Don’t scratch visibly or engage in behaviors like picking at food or teeth at the table. Keep personal grooming private.

 

Be Mindful of Others 

Eat in a way that respects fellow diners—chew quietly, use utensils appropriately, and keep your space tidy.

 

Adapt to Context

Although the vibe in casual settings may be relaxed, maintain basic courtesy (e.g., no loud nose-blowing). Adhere strictly to polished etiquette in formal settings.

 

This fosters a respectful, comfortable dining environment, whether at family dinners, business lunches, or social gatherings.