101 Virtues to apply to your life. Number Nighty-eight

 101 Virtues to apply to your life. Number Nighty-eight

 

Let’s explore the book of virtues that George Washington copied at 14 and followed throughout his life. These virtues are based on Aristotle's writings but have been enhanced over the centuries. We can translate them into modern language and find practical ways to apply them.

 

 

Number Nity-eight

Drink not too leisurely nor yet too hastily. Before and after drinking, wipe your lips; breathe not then or ever with too great a noise, for its uncivil.  

This virtue, drawn from early etiquette advice, emphasizes moderation, mindfulness, and courtesy in social settings, particularly when eating or drinking. Modern language suggests drinking thoughtfully: neither gulping nor lingering excessively, while maintaining basic manners, like cleaning your mouth and avoiding disruptive behavior. It reflects respect for yourself and those around you.

Practical Application Today

Moderation in Drinking

Sip beverages steadily, whether at a casual gathering or a formal event. Avoid chugging drinks or nursing them so long that they draw attention. For example, take small sips of wine or water at a dinner party in rhythm with the conversation.

Mindful Hygiene 

Wipe your mouth with a napkin before and after drinking to avoid smudges on glassware or an unkempt appearance. This small act shows attention to detail, especially in professional or social settings like a business lunch.

 

Quiet Consideration 

Avoid loud slurping, heavy breathing, or other noises while drinking (or at any time). For instance, when sipping coffee in a quiet café or during a meeting, keep sounds minimal to maintain a pleasant atmosphere.

 

Broader Context 

Apply this principle beyond drinking to general behavior—act with restraint and awareness. For example, don’t rush or dawdle excessively when eating, and keep table manners polished to show respect for shared spaces.

 

By practicing these habits, you cultivate a sense of refinement and consideration, aligning with the timeless intent of this advice in today’s world.